I want to prove to the world that nice, kind people can be successful. You don’t have to be a nasty bitch or someone who loses their chastity and self-respect, by sleeping around with senior role colleagues to get to the top. I have seen many of these behaviours. You do not have to be mean, and a bully. Intimidate colleagues. I want to say to you readers, I treat someone they way I want to be treated. That is all. And yes, it does take a lot of time to get that promotion. For me, it still hasn’t happened yet do not give up. Keep persevering and I will get there.
To be successful, you don’t have to be a social butterfly. Going to parties and social invites night in and night out.. There is evidence of this theory, if you don’t socialize, you can focus what is important to you. Career, great job and family matters.
I read an article about a woman who worked her way up a newspaper company and became the editor, All down to the aspect of having no friends. I have no friends and I am okay with that. Less christmas presents and birthday cards to buy. Less expense from a logic view. Focus what is important to me. Don’t listen in on work gossip and work politics, you won’t get hurt.